Failure hurts a lot. It’s hard to accept it. It’s hard to move on and face a new day without ever thinking what made me a failure. I don’t know what it would take for me succeed. I tried different ways, yet still I’m not going anywhere. I’m not moving. Have you felt in your life that no matter how much you try, it feels like nothing change.
“Right now, my failures makes me stronger and better. Now it pushes me to keep going. And the more i fight, the more I realize what am I fighting for. ” –Mark M.
I just remembered what my boss said, “Do the same things, expect the same results. But do different things, then you can expect different results. Wherever you go in your life, there will be issues. You cannot escape from it. And the worst part is, you can blame anyone on what’s happening in your life. And you can just stay relax and say I’m good and contented. I have a job. I can survive. Or you make a choice to give your best shot everyday.”
Even you never seen any good results, just keep going. Even your the only one who believes in yourself and everyone is laughing at you. You might said, you don’t know my situation. My life is different from yours. And yes, your right. But if your holding onto something, to your dreams in life, to what you believe, your goals, to what you stood for and to what your fighting for. Then we have something in common. If you have hesitations to what you want to do, if you love what you do, if you want to try something new, if you want to live you life as if this is the last day, if you want to try it all over again. Then somehow, I experienced those things also.
You cannot do all the preparations for all the steps you will have in the future. Focus on your first step of a short term goal, then take action.
There’s a lot of things in this world you wish you can change. But most of the time, you can’t. Options are:
1. To accept.
2. To ignore.
3. To avoid.
4. To change yourself.
-The decision is yours. And that decision is either makes you happy and contented or not.
Appreciate others and being amaze even when they’re not the best in what they do. It will somehow help them, encourage and motivate them. Having the reason to continue the journey.
Treasure them. Thank them.
You can only say that your focus if and only if you prioritize something. If not, then there’s a lot of things that tries to steal your time and attention. It’s hard to notice it. You’re lucky if there are people who are observers and wanted you to grow and thrive.
If none, then the only choice is to improve your self awareness day by day by day.You will achieve 100% focus.
It’s what keeps you going. You never stop no matter what. What makes you keep trying again and again. Having a strong belief and passion.
If you really wanted it bad, you must know your DRIVE.
Think twice before you share ideas, trying to help someone. Help them by knowing their condition/situation rather than help them by thinking of your own situation on how you do things.
What you apply in Life is not as good as they apply it. The result maybe different.
It is your decision, it is your step, it is your life, it is your future. Be open to yourself. Be honest to yourself. And be true to yourself. I know it’s hard, but it’s one of the real battle in life. If you don’t change, you will be left behind further as time goes by.
For some, it gives them the strength when they are weak. It gives them courage and perseverance to continue life’s battles for someone they’ll give importance to.
There is unmeasurable power behind it. They face the fear for the good of someone else.
It’s not because they failed, you will fail. Never compare yourself, you are unique. You have your own identity. You have your own ability.
One reason why some people compare themselves to others is because they don’t believe and trust what they can do and can become.
Most people failed just because they only know how to live in the world “instant”. They don’t know how to “sacrifice”, they always wanted the “shortcut” to success. You need to be patient and learn it step by step.
Be strong and courageous. Learn to face it. Pray.
But if you can’t face it at that time, it’s ok. Be honest. Knowing that someday you will be prepared for it.
Learn when to stop and when to go. When it is too much or it’s enough. Know when to listen and when to speak. Know how to use proper timing and perfect moment.
Many were failure just because they don’t know how to act and when to act.
In today’s time, knowing what to act is not enough.
A short time satisfaction is sometimes leads to longer time of suffering.
Be careful. Be aware
The more you prepare, the better the plan, the greater the chance to succeed.
Commitment is usually what differentiate successful people to unsuccessful one. If you really want to succeed then it’s not others who were responsible but it’s you.
Step by step, you will learn from it. The only person who can give the best effort to become a winner is no one else but you yourself.
Why do so many people complaining rather than think and do something to change the situation. You can usually hear people say I can’t, I’m busy or maybe next time. Then they’ll been saying why life is hard. They start to look for someone to blame. They don’t know and not aware it is them who were the problem. Like what others said, the greatest enemy is “yourself.”
There are times in life you want to look for answer to your questions. As time goes by, just be patient. You’ll find that answer in the most unexpected way.
Having a preparation for tomorrow will help you start easily. Because what most people having a hard time is to start something. They planned well, but without action is useless.
“You are what you choose to learn”
One way of effective learning is by reading. But it’s not enough especially if you want to be the best.
It’s good to read, It’s better to understand and It’s best to apply.
You can have thousands of books, i will just ask you one thing. What did you apply in Real Life?
No matter: who you are
where you came from
what is your level of education
what resources you have.
We all have the power to choose who we want to be. We are capable of making it happen.
And remember, we all have something in common that only few use it wisely. That is
There are different ways of how they start doing something, the time they are doing it and when they choose to stop/end it. Just an advice, make experiment. Continuously do what really works just for you or your team and always be flexible in the improvements you did. Try it again and again and again.
And avoid expecting for great results in a short period of time. That’s why turtle always win. Be patient.
-Sometimes people who lack initiative are waiting for someone else to motivate them. Well, if you want to get ahead, most of the time you need to light your own fire.
Many of them were just looking for the end result but not on consequences they may face. Toughest part is you don’t know that consequence can lead to another consequence.
“Don’t be hasty with your life, just be reminded that in the right time you will reap everything you had sow.”
Remain focus even you can’t see any improvements. Believe in what you do now and who will you become after.
And it’s true, we only have limited time here on earth to answer all the questions running on our minds. Why is this happening to me? where should i go? who will i trust?
But that’s life, that’s how we were made. Instead of spending time looking for all the answers, why not focus on what you really wanted to know, then assess yourself and remember your past experiences. Think. . .Seek. . . Ask. . . Knock. . .
“It’s not because you can , you should.” by Lea Salonga
Sometimes you have think twice, sometimes what you can do is not appropriate for the situation. Sometimes you have to let others show that they also can. Sometimes in life it’s better to withdraw and be silent than just showing up all your capabilities.
Yes, you want to learn. And now you can see that there’s a lot of way to increase your knowledge. But the critical part is to carefully assess what really works for you(best fit) because if not, you’ll end up collecting enormous amount of information and learning just few.
Small changes you made everyday will accumulate and lead to greater effects in the future. Being focus on present time.
“From Questions to Statistics to Interpretation. Then last thing, the Decision.”
What i love is probability testing. Taking chances(risks) by relying on data then make a proper interpretation. The questions are how many data do you have and how many are reliable? it can lead to 1 to 99% chance of success.
If you know how to use it well, you will be amazed with good results it can provide.
If you think you’ll be successful, then you’re going to be successful.
We can’t measure how powerful our mind is, it is the one who find ways to make dreams a reality. While others are telling you it’s impossible, you can’t reach that Goal. Its not for you, you’re not good enough.
Don’t focus on those things, sometimes you just have to believe and do it again and again and again.
It’s a priority. To take good care
1. Enough Rest and Sleep
2. Balance Diet
4. Laugh and Enjoy
5. Interact – Relationships
A friend told me. its good to think of what will be your life in the future and be prepared for it (but not too much). Be careful, don’t forget to appreciate your present time, laugh and live your life. In the movie – Kung Fu Panda part 1. And that’s why its called Present.
You will learn a lot, Josh Kaufman make it easier for you to understand the Business.
You can also view it in creativelive.com
A very good speaker
Originally posted on Thinkingtanks.com:
When most well-intentioned aid workers hear of a problem they think they can fix, they go to work. This, Ernesto Sirolli suggests, is naïve. In this funny and impassioned talk, he proposes that the first step is to listen to the people you’re trying to help, and tap into their own entrepreneurial spirit. His advice on what works will help any entrepreneur.
Ernesto Sirolli got his start doing aid work in Africa in the 70’s — and quickly realised how ineffective it was. Read Full Bio
Spend time looking on the proper tools that will fit for the project planned, it will provide ease, fast and better results.
“It’s not too bad to doubt, it’s already part of life. What important is how you make decisions and actions on your doubts that dictate the results.”
What i love best is the battlefield, a place where you will test your limits.